There might be a lot of time when you just want to look right. Would it sound rude if I say you JUST have to look right into YOU, get to know the real you and that's what matters a lot than anything else. A mere reflection does not have the power to stand for Who you really are. I am not saying that you could look ratchet and go for a general body meeting I am just saying you value more than what you look like. Appearances are deceptive and I have potentially experienced it a lot of times. There are times you can be judgmental subconsciously as you are bombarded with a lot of stereotypes every second you are in the internet or you go out. There is a whole lot of businesses out there that is just waiting to use your insecurity and turn it against you.I first of all ask you why you need to be insecure about anything a little flab, complexion, a mole or the little things that make you YOU! Seriously, social media want's you to be perfect all the time and look just right.

I am not a happy face everyday!

There is a difference between accepting who you really are and embracing it and projecting yourself in a different way to people. It gets difficult to explain this since it is so generic these days that we take everything for granted. There is the difference between making yourself presentable and faking who you truly are and entirely presenting a different image, a different version of yourself. That is what has to stop immediately. It is the society that has to change and not you. I take consious effort to be happy everyday when I wake up, because I am thankful for the day that I am given and feel blessed. Every night before you get all snuggled up in your blanket and go to sleep please think once about how blessed you are to be sheltered, have loving and caring people around you, have proper food, what more do you want in LIFE. There are times I do feel put down by some people who are insecure about themselves and want to feel good by putting you down, but I brush it off thinking is it worth spending my time here in this wonderful and amazing place thinking about them, really I am not even going to spend a tenth of my second for them.

Stepping out is the key

Always be sure to step out of your comfort zone every once in a while so you can experience new things, meet new people and explore a little more. Think about it, you have some controls only when you have a inhibition. The sense of achievement that you receive out of stepping out of your comfort zone gives you strength, makes you the person you really are.

 Isn't it time we take control?